Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts

Monday, December 13, 2010

Get your life in order in 2011

1. Get off the career treadmill: Re-evaluate your life's priorities.Is your career ruining other aspects of your life, such as relationship with family and friends or may be your health? A strong social support system made of family, friends, and co-workers help buffer the negative effects of stress.

2. Beat Body Image Blues: Forget those 36-24-36. if you want to be in these days , you need to be comfortable in your own skin, whatever its proportions. It starts by accepting yourself for who you are.Affirm that your body is perfect just the way it is.Negative body image has damaging effects on your self esteem and can lead to depression.

3.Stop Daydreaming: Start pursuing your dreams in fresh. If you tried in the past to go after your dreams and failed there is a chance it wasn't your fault. Approach your dream from different angles, perhaps using new technologies not available on your last effort.

4. Avoid over analysis: The next time you find yourself over analyzing your relationship, see if you can back off. As you back off, your love will return. Stop over analysis your partner's flaws and there'll be fewer to contend with.

5. Put Mr. Right on Hold: Instead of searching for Mr. Right, start working at becoming Ms Right instead. You have to be sexually healthy, able to support yourself, wise,playful, and relaxed.  In short, be all you want Mr Right to be. While no man is perfect,  there are thousands of kind , faithful, fun-loving, intelligent, sincere men out there looking for women with similar qualities

Monday, December 6, 2010

25 ways to improve your conversations


1. Be the first to say Hello

2. Make an extra effort to remember people's names and ask a person's name if you have forgotten it.

3.Be receptive to new ideas, and be open to other people's opinions and feelings.

4. Show curiosity and interest in others and show interest when they talk.

5. Tell other anout yourself, what your likes and the important events in your life.

6. Keep update with current events and issues that affect all our lives.

7. Use "I" when talk about personal things.

8. Show others that you are really good listener by restating their comments in abother manner.

9. Show your sense of humour when talking to them.

10. Balance the giving and receiving information.

11. Show others that you are enjoying your conversation with them.

12. Ask other people's opinions.

13. Look for positive attitudes.

14. Start abd end conversation with person's name and a handshake or warm greeting.

15. Take time to be cordial with co-workers and neighbors.

16. Let others to know that you want to know more about them.

17. Ask others about things they have told you in previous conversations.

18. Listen carefully for free information.

19. Be tolerant of other people's beliefs if they differ from yours.

20. Change topic of conversation when it has run its course.

21. Always search for other people's hot button.

22. Compliment others.

23. Encourage others to talk.

24. Make effort to see and talk to people you like.

25. When you tell a story, present the mian point first and then add the supporting details afterward.